Second Story of Ning   

by lonelyjohn | Nov 1, 2023 | Dating Asian Ladies, Monogamy

I had a friend whom I mentioned in other articles.  One article was mostly about her, and she made the title.  So, this is called the second story Ning, because that is what it is, another story about when I learned from Ning.   As an update, this Ning was a sex...

The Story of Ning, my First Friend in Thailand

by lonelyjohn | Oct 31, 2023 | Sex work, Sexual Consent, Trafficking

There is an important secret within this article for anyone who wishes to understand sex work in Thailand.  As I have said many times there may be many similarities between what you learn here which also apply around the world.  That is not true about the...

What about Jay Walking?  Legal or Crime?

by lonelyjohn | Oct 31, 2023 | Bangkok sex workers, Pattaya Sex Tourism, Sex work

How do we decide to deal with the horrible crime of sex work?  Should it be to legalize or to continue to criminalize.  Maybe we should decriminalize.  That seems the easiest choice.  REF #20.  But there is a fourth choice and that is to do...

What’s Going on with Digital Meeting in the USA? 

by lonelyjohn | Oct 23, 2023 | Online dating, Sex work, Sexual Consent

I had an amazing experience only a short time ago which, to me at least, is closely related to my overall topic of sex work and sex trafficking.   Here it is – – I was eating at a favorite taco restaurant in the Terminal 21 Mall on Sukhumvit Road...

A Deeper Look at Sex Work and Sex Trafficking

by lonelyjohn | Sep 1, 2023 | Trafficking

As a writer about sex work and sex trafficking I often state that these issues can be complex, and frankly deserve to be complex – and discussed accordingly.  But often a lot of the background and social and economic circumstances which explain sex work or...

What does CONSENT mean?

by lonelyjohn | Sep 1, 2023 | Sexual Consent

As a writer about sex work and sex trafficking I often state that these can be complex issues.  I try to discuss related subjects which others seem to ignore. I only say this as a sort of apology for stepping into the world of feminism. The idea of...

Why is Understanding of Religion Important  to Understanding Sex Work

by lonelyjohn | Aug 15, 2023 | Monogamy

The title of this article is dishonest because a more accurate title would be that understanding of ancient benefits of religion is important to understanding all aspects sexual behavior.  That is what I will explain as my opinion.  Of course. one aspect...

How I Found a Female Friend in the 21st Century

by lonelyjohn | Aug 15, 2023 | Asian Dating Websites, Bangkok sex workers

This self-declared Lonely Sex Tourist has had many experiences which leads me to believe that I have something to share with you that helps us all understand sex work.  But I also claim this is a complex subject.  This is part of the complex part. When I was...

HIV under control?

by lonelyjohn | Aug 11, 2023 | Bangkok sex workers, HIV and AIDS

How ’bout an Update on HIV/AIDs The subject of HIV came up in my life, just as it might in yours.  I am not HIV positive, but I was surprised that a woman thought I might be.  She is HIV positive. So, now I am learning more about this subject and there...

No violence, no fear, no pimps.

by lonelyjohn | Aug 11, 2023 | Bangkok sex workers, Pimps

A New Friend Shares Her Story I am back from a week in Bangkok.  As a self-proclaimed sex tourist, I rarely travel with sex on my mind. There should be better reasons than just that, but we are all different.  I will put in a plug for Bangkok as one of the...